Why do I pray?

Prayer is at the heart of what it means to be a Christian. It is far more than words we say at set times in church; prayer is our living connection with God, a way of keeping company with Him in the midst of everyday life.

Just as we need to talk and listen to those we love in order to deepen our relationships, so too with God. Prayer is that conversation. It is not about using the “right” words, but about being open and honest before the One who knows us best. In prayer, we draw close to God, and He draws close to us.

Prayer is a chance to lift our eyes from the busyness of life and remember God’s goodness. Whether we whisper a quick “thank you” for a blessing, or pause in silence to praise His greatness, prayer turns our hearts to worship. Gratitude in prayer keeps us mindful that all we have and all we are is a gift from God.

Prayer shapes us. Over time, as we bring our joys and struggles to God, we find ourselves being changed. We become more patient, more forgiving, more trusting. Prayer doesn’t just influence the world around us—it softens our hearts and helps us to see with God’s eyes.

One of the most loving things we can do is to pray for someone else. When we hold others before God in prayer—family, friends, our church, even strangers—we are sharing in Christ’s own ministry of intercession. Prayer is one way in which we care for others and carry their burdens.

Life is not without its trials, and there are seasons when worries, grief, or loneliness weigh heavily upon us. In these moments, prayer can be a lifeline. The Bible reminds us that God’s peace, which is “beyond understanding,” will guard our hearts (Philippians 4:7). Prayer reminds us we are never alone.

Prayer does not have to be complicated or lengthy. It might be as simple as a whispered “Lord, help me” while waiting for the bus, or a few quiet minutes at the end of the day. The important thing is to keep the habit, to make prayer as natural as breathing.

Prayer is not a duty we must perform, but a gift God offers us: an invitation to walk closely with Him each day. It brings comfort, strength, and joy.

Above all, it keeps us rooted in the love of Christ.